Funerals

How I can support you? Deb Reed Celebrant Essex dandelion logo

Choosing who will speak the final words for a loved one is a deeply personal and emotional decision. You want to feel confident that their life will be honoured with care, warmth, and the right words.

When you place your trust in me as your celebrant, my role goes far beyond simply leading a ceremony. I am here to listen, to support you gently, and to guide you through this process with care and understanding.

Together, we will take time to talk, to remember the funny moments, the quirks, the passions, and the everyday details that made your loved one who they were. Through shared conversations and thoughtful reflection, I will weave these memories into a personalised ceremony script that honours their life and celebrates them with warmth, honesty, and heart.

Deb Reed Celebrant Colchester Essex, officiating at a funeral ashes internment.
Deb Reed Celebrant Colchester Essex, walking through the woods after officiating at a funeral ashes internment.

What Families Often Tell MeDeb Reed Celebrant Essex dandelion logo

Families often say they felt listened to, supported, and truly understood throughout the process. They appreciate having time and space to talk, to remember, and to reflect — without feeling rushed or pressured.

Many tell me it helped to have someone calm and compassionate to guide them, someone who could hold the structure while gently shaping the ceremony around their loved one’s life. They often say the service felt personal, comforting, and like a true reflection of the person they were saying goodbye to.

Above all, families say they felt supported and heard - not just on the day of the ceremony, but every step along the way.

Taking time to listenDeb Reed Celebrant Essex dandelion logo

During the planning process, I’ll meet with you as many times as required and take the time to learn about the life of your loved one – their passions, accomplishments, and the relationships they cherished. This knowledge allows me to weave together a heartfelt tribute that truly reflects the individual they were.

  • I will support you with choosing readings, music, poetry and any other creative elements.
  • I can write the eulogy or support you or family members with eulogy writing.
  • I will work with your funeral director and other suppliers.

Deb Reed Celebrant Colchester Essex, a white heart painted on a tree at a funeral ashes internment.
Deb Reed Celebrant Colchester Essex. A charm pinned to a tree at a funeral ashes internment.

Delivering your ceremonyDeb Reed Celebrant Essex dandelion logo

On the day of your ceremony I will greet guests and explain to them, what, when and how things will happen. I’ll be there to support any readers or speakers. I will then deliver your ceremony with empathy and compassion taking into account all we have discussed. After your ceremony you will receive a presentation copy of the funeral script.

Digital Tributes & Order of serviceDeb Reed Celebrant Essex dandelion logo

I can support you with the creation of digital tributes. Family and friends can share photos, videos, and stories which I will put together for you in a beautiful presentation, keeping memories alive and accessible for generations to come.

Ensure your ceremony runs smoothly and elegantly with custom-designed order of service cards. I offer support in designing and printing these essential keepsakes, ensuring they honour and reflect the uniqueness of your loved one.

Pre-planned funeralsDeb Reed Celebrant Essex dandelion logo

When it comes to your final arrangements, pre-planning can be one of the most thoughtful decisions you make for yourself and your family. I also offer a service to work with you before your death to plan a ceremony that reflects your wishes and values. By making decisions in advance, you can ease your family from the emotional stress of arranging your funeral during a difficult time. Your loved ones can focus on grieving and healing, knowing that your wishes have been respected.

I believe that love lives on through the memories we cherish, so if I can help you create a beautiful tribute for your loved one do get in touch.

Deb Reed Celebrant Colchester Essex, the plaque for Michael Skerritt after officiating at his funeral ashes internment.

Funeral packages from £250.